So now it turns out that being a
tattooed woman means being easy, slutty, a perv, having a certain
pre-established morality, or all of those things together. Well, let me tell
you something, that is the biggest insult and offense I ever imagined I could
receive.
My body decor is just one part of
me. I am not conditioned and won't ever be conditioned by prejudice or
stereotypes. I am who I am way beyond how I dress or the tattoos I have. And
the fact that some moronic and ignorant idiot thinks he can classify and read
people by how they look like is something I find extremely shocking. If anyone
thinks they are able to judge me by looking at me, they got it wrong.
For anyone who believes they
might know me: I am as tolerant, liberal and open-minded in some aspects of my
life and of my idiosyncrasy, as I am old-fashioned and conservative in others.
Every little tiny detail about
myself and how I think are what define me, and me being tattooed is just one
more of those tiny details, one of a thousand.
Keep this in mind, and this is
addressed to that particular, irritating, carcinogenic kind of people: I would
rather kill myself than live being defined and confined by what you think you
know about me. I would rather die before having to put up with someone who
thinks they can categorize people into shoe boxes, or what is even worse, into
just two sorts: 'mainstream' and 'weird'. Because we are ALL weird in some
ways, in the eyes of certain people. It is all a matter of perspective.
So do not think you have a right
to judge or share your thoughts before someone asked you to. Because maybe,
while you are openly being an ignorant simpleton; or while you are saying
things to me you find totally normal but which should make me call the police;
I am thinking you are probably one of the most despicable people I have
encountered in my whole life.
I will never behave by what
anybody wants me to do, I will never speak by what anybody wants me to say, I
will never shape my ethics according to what people expect me to be, and I will
never adapt or adjust myself to meet any standard or to fit into the disgusting
morality and lack of decency and values which these days abound in certain
aspects of this rotten society.
I am who I am, I believe in what
I believe, and my hopes, my dreams, and mainly my principles, come before any
other thing to me, because I do know myself and the person I want to become.
And what should be most important to anyone is to feel comfortable in their own
skin and to make sure they do not spend their life pretending.
You wanna call me traditional,
rigid, strict, or a freak! Then go for it, cause I do not give a
flying fuck.
I know I do not belong in this
era in many, many ways, but if I have to be the weird one my whole existence,
so be it.
As long as I am happy with
myself. Proud of how I live.
As long as you do not hurt
anyone, be yourself and fuck everything else.
Surrounded by cats it is.
